June 25, 2016 | Author:

After almost 10 years I’m closing the doors on Noble Womanhood and merging it with my original blog, Old Paths. Over the years Old Paths fell by the wayside as I devoted most of my attention here – and then as life took twists and turns Noble Womanhood also ended up on the back burner.

However, I’m looking forward to getting back into the swing of things and I’ve decided to dust off and revive Old Paths. To keep things (realistic) streamlined and doable that means I need to have only one blog to keep up with, thus the merger.

Soon, this site will redirect to the new one, but it will be archived and I’ll have a link to it so it is easily accessible.

I definitely still plan to write on the nobility of the roles of wife and mother; one of my favorite topics. It’s easy to get worn down in the daily reality of life and to lose sight of the bigger picture. It’s vital that we remember the eternal value of the work we are doing.

The new blog is still under construction, but there are a few posts up and you can subscribe to my mailing list to be notified when it is running at full steam.

Hope to see you there!

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Quote of the Week ~ July 11, 2015

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“She never, by word or look, discouraged me from running all hazards for the salvation of our country’s liberties; she was willing to share with me…in all the dangerous consequences we had to hazard.” John Adams – speaking of his wife, Abigail

Hope and Healing for the Sick and Weary Wife and Mother

March 7, 2015 | Author:


Christian wives and mothers, we are meant to be strong, capable and powerful. The Hebrew word “chayil” is the meaning of the word “virtuous” used to describe the Proverbs 31 woman and is also translated throughout the Bible as “strength”, “ability”, “valiant”, “army”, “host”, “forces”, “riches”, “wealth”, “substance”, “power” and even “war”. The godly wife and mother is no household drudge, weak doormat, or mindless parasite. She is a mighty warrior queen who fights righteous battles at her husband’s side and reigns with him over the home and domain God has given them as they work together for Christ’s eternal Kingdom and glory. We also have a mighty work to do in raising an army for Christ. We have a such a powerful calling and yet so many Christian wives and mothers struggle with health issues that hinder their efforts at every turn. Depression, brain fog, fatigue, pain…the list goes on and on.

In my own 8 year struggle with debilitating chronic illness, I have met many, many other Christian mothers who have also suffered terribly with health issues – ranging from crippling and unable to function to just an overall weariness or lots of little things that add up to making life an effort. This has been an issue heavy on my heart for years and while I have been able to offer encouragement here and there I have never been able to offer practical help (especially since I am still fighting that battle on my home front).

However. Things have changed. I firmly believe that the Lord is answering prayer and doing a great work in raising up sick, exhausted and struggling wives and mothers through Plexus products. This has been such a huge answer to prayer for me and I have read testimony after testimony of women being strengthened and renewed mentally and physically through a simple little drink and some effective capsules that address root issues in the body and set off a wonderful healing snowball effect.

Now I do have a tool in my hand that I can offer to those who are sick, hurting and weary that can truly give them a new lease on life and enable them to better fulfill their God-given roles. My goal is to reach as many Christian wives and mothers as I can to spread the word that there is true hope of healing! I have been there. I still am there as I slowly recover. I know the agony, the heartache and the day to day, step by step effort of trying to be who and what you should be for the family you dearly love when you can barely keep going.

I am so amazed, overjoyed and grateful that the Lord is providing a means of healing for us- and one so simple that even the most exhausted and overwhelmed can handle it. Imagine the potential for the kingdom of Christ if all of the sick , weary and wounded warrior queens were able to rise and take their rightful place in the battle?

If you are struggling with your health in any way at all, please contact me and I will be more than happy to share with you what has been a life-changing answer to prayer for me, and many others. My in progress testimony is here.

What You Need to Know About the “Virtuous” Woman

January 8, 2015 | Author:

I touched on this a bit in Queen of the Home (What Does “Virtuous” Really Mean?) and love the thoughts that Kelly Crawford shares over at Raising Homemakers. Do you know the real meaning of the word “virtuous” ? :

A big smile broke out across my face yesterday when I was showing my girls how to study the Bible using a Strong’s concordance. I had chosen Proverbs 31:10 and we were looking up the word “virtuous.”

If you grew up in a Christian home or church, you are well-familiar with talk of what it means to be a “virtuous” woman. Some women don’t even like to use the word anymore because its meaning has become jaded, its image attached to self-righteousness piety (sadly, but true). At best, we think it means “good, godly, pure.”

I was so surprised to see the word in its original Hebrew. Look:

a force, strength, ability, might, efficiency, wealth, army

And the writer of Proverbs rightly asks, “Who can find this kind of woman?”

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Quote of the Week ~ Nov. 25, 2014

November 26, 2014 | Author:



“So they committed themselves to the will of God and resolved to proceed.” ~ William Bradford


21st Century Women Versus Pilgrim Foremothers

November 22, 2014 | Author:


From Bambi Moore at In the Nursery of the Nation:

The inscription on the Monument to the Pilgrim Mothers in Plymouth, Massachusetts reads:

“They brought up their families in sturdy virtue and a living faith in God without which nations perish.”

Years later, America’s foe, British general Lord Cornwallis said:

“We may destroy all the men in America, and we shall still have all we can do to defeat the women.”

Finally, French journalist Alexis Tocqueville concluded his great work Democracy in America:

“If I were asked, now that I am drawing to the close of this work, in which I have spoken of so many important things done by the Americans, to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed, I should reply: To the superiority of their women.”

Why is there a chasm separating our Pilgrim foremothers and 21st century women? If Tocqueville were around today would he attribute America’s now weak condition, to the women as well? Is it merely that the years bring changes in clothing, hair-dos and modern conveniences? Surely it’s more than that which separates us from these hard-working, resilient, reverent and faithful women.

It is the state of our souls.

 Our text-messaging, dinner is pre-made, God-is-my-cosmic-genie-generation has come so far in less than 400 years. Pilgrim women served the God of the universe: Sovereign and just, all-sufficient, even in death; the source and passion of their existence.

Coming Next Week! “Queen of the Home” on Ebook!

November 18, 2014 | Author:



Stay tuned for details and a giveaway of some wonderful homemaking books and ebooks!

How a Pink Drink Was an Answer to Prayer: Plexus Slim Review

October 29, 2014 | Author:


I have struggled with health issues for most of my life, including chronic ear infections, allergies, eczema and more. For the past eight years I have been struggling with severe, often debilitating, adrenal fatigue. Four of those years, including this one, have been spent partly bedridden.

With 8 young children growing up before my eyes this has been such a heartache to me and a great burden on our whole family. The Lord has been so faithful though. We know that all things come through His hands and that He works all things together for our good and that is a comfort we continue to cling to. We also believe that healing comes through Him and that He is the Great Physician. I have been praying desperately for this and for the first time I have real hope that He is answering with a “Yes” and it is time for me to get well.

A little over a year ago I first heard about a “pink drink” that was helping people with a myriad of health issues. I looked at it briefly, but being a little skeptical I did not pursue it any further

This year, my health plummeted again to the point of being near adrenal failure and mostly bedridden since March. I had days where I was so low I could barely talk, sit up or even open my eyes. I had many days where I was only able to be up for 10 or fifteen minutes at a time, and that was usually shuffling around the house, not even standing upright. The slightest exertion was a huge effort.

In April, we lost the little baby we were expecting. Being so sick, I did not quite know how to even begin to get well. Special diets were not a doable option when I could not even get out of bed to prepare normal meals. I was not strong enough for the hour drive to the nearest doctor and mybrain was so foggy and fatigued I didn’t even know how I should figure out which supplements, or combinations thereof, I should be taking.

I had a new determination though, that I had to make getting well a top priority no matter how hard it was. I began to funnel my grief over losing our baby into prayerfully researching some different options. As I began to research, I remembered that Plexus “pink drink” I had read about  last year and decided to give it another look.

I thought it sounded interesting  and the ingredients looked surprisingly natural, so I googled “Plexus Slim and adrenal fatigue”. I found some wonderfully encouraging blog posts from normal sounding, Christian, homeschool mothers and I began to exchange my skepticism for a glimmer of hope.

I decided to give it a try and will be forever grateful that the Lord led me to do so! In the the past 4 1/2 months that we have been using Plexus products my health is continuing to slowly, steadily improve. I am no longer bedridden and I am gaining strength, stamina and energy. My brain fog is clearing away, as well as the depression that I couldn’t shake, and my awful insomnia is improving.

Plexus is not just a quick fix. It is a healing process. Slim addresses blood sugar regulation, which in turn sets off a snowball effect of health benefits. I have had relapses, some days better and some worse, but I am making continual progress. Having been sick for so long, I know I have a long way to go, but I am so thrilled to feel like I am finally on my way.

Living with adrenal fatigue, especially when it is severe, is very much like living with the spark of life removed. I felt like I was dying a long, slow death – not only my body, but ME inside. It has been called by a doctor who is an expert in adrenal issues the state of “the living dead”. That truly sums it up.

I have read many Plexus testimonials where people state that “Plexus gave me my life back”. It delights me now to be able to say the same. It truly is giving me my life back! I feel like “Me” again. As a result, it is giving my husband and children new life as well.

(Speaking of my husband, Plexus has been a huge answer to prayer for him as well for his years of terrible migraines!)

I am so thankful to the Lord for providing me with such a direct answer to prayer; and something simple enough for my foggy brain and sick body to be able to even handle to get started on the road to healing.

If you have health issues and are looking for help, please contact me! My heart so goes out to others, especially mothers, who are dealing with chronic illness and I want to share with you what has been the Lord’s answer to my exhausted, desperate prayer. There is hope.

Because Plexus has been such a huge blessing to us, we are spreading the word far and wide to others who struggle with their health. We just launched a brand new website full of information and testimonies,  Please come visit there if you would like to know more!

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Quote of the Week ~ September 14, 2014

September 14, 2014 | Author:

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When we consider the great influence which family training has on the world at large, we cannot wonder that He who divided mankind into families, should so commend the woman who looked well to the ways of those who compose the circle which she superintends. The constant recognition of family duties, the emphatic injunctions that women should be keepers at home, and love their husbands and love their children, all lead us to the remembrance that God is not only the God of each individual, but that he is indeed the God of all families.

It was the praise given of the patriarch, by Jehovah, “I know Abraham, that he will command his household after him.” Moses reminded the ancient Hebrew, that the statutes of God were not for himself only, but that “they were for his son’s son, all the days of his life;” and added to his command, the assurance “that it may be well with thee, and with thy children after thee.”

The Great Founder of human families knew that it could be well only with the people in general, in proportion as household duty and religion were taught and practised. From the house-the quiet hearth-the peaceful vine‐arbour-were to go forth those who should form the future nation. And still the senator and the philosopher, the philanthropist and the missionary, go from the house of youth full of the sentiments which they have learned there, and with their habits formed on the model of home. ~ Anne Pratt

The Truth, the Whole Truth and Nothing but the Truth: A Follow Up Response to Michael Farris

September 3, 2014 | Author:

In his article A Line in the Sand Michael Farris briefly quoted from two articles originally published on Vision Forum’s website.  Two days ago I read through both articles and I am even more appalled than I was at first that Mr. Farris would take these few statements and use them as proof of the theology and dangers of those who hold to patriarchy as taught by Vision Forum.

The articles that Mr. Farris quoted actually provide a balanced view of patriarchy when read as a whole, in context. Both articles are full of statements that would lay the accusations that Mr. Farris made to rest and I would encourage anyone concerned with this issue to read them in their entirety.

First he quoted from this article by Brian Abshire, written in 2005 and published on Vision Forum’s website:

>> Patriarchial teaching: Women should not vote.

Example of this teaching: “ … God does not allow women to vote (cf. 1 Tim 2:11ff). But by ignoring God’s law, American Christians both destroyed their own credibility … and the integrity of [their] own families … .

[W]hat practical benefit does allowing women to vote provide? If husband and wife agree on an issue, then one has simply doubled the number of votes; but the result is the same. Women’s voting only makes a difference when the husband and wife disagree; a wife, who does not trust the judgment of her husband, can nullify his vote.”

>> Patriarchial teaching: Higher education is not important for women.

Example: “[D]oes it really make economic sense to invest tens of thousands of dollars for a woman to get an advanced education (often having to go into debt to finance that education) that she will not use if she accepts that her highest calling is to be a wife and mother?”

I would also like to point out that these statements from the article above were made in passing about a broader application of patriarchy and were never an official stance of Vision Forum.

Why did Mr. Farris not also quote the following statements from the exact same article by Mr. Abshire ? (Emphasis added):

“Until the twentieth century, Americans almost universally held to this doctrine of representation in some form or the other. The reason why women were not allowed to vote had nothing to do with women being considered “inferior” or “too emotional” (these values arose during the Victorian era and were themselves theologically and socially deviant) but rather because the husband and father was ASSUMED to represent the family to the broader community.”…

…”The doctrine of representation provides a necessary theological presupposition that encourages genuine reformation in the family, and the establishment of a stable social order. The model for the Christian family is NOT the post-war “Father Knows Best” or “Leave it to Beaver” where an “all-wise” father governs a “ditzie” wife who vacuums in a cocktail dress. Instead, we must rediscover the father’s role in governing the family wisely and justly according to Divine Law as he represents the family to the outside world. We must also understand and accept that with authority comes responsibility; the family belongs to God, not the father. The father cannot govern any way he pleases but only as a wise steward of God’s people; and like unjust, tyrannical kings, God CAN and WILL depose us if we do not fulfill our responsibilities according to His law.

Mr. Farris makes this statement in his article:

While people are entitled to personal opinions within a broad range, there are some views within the patriarchy movement that go too far. Women are not to be the de facto slaves of men. Women are created with dignity equal to that of men. Women have direct and unmediated access to God. Daughters should not be taught that their only and ultimate purpose in life is to be the “helpmeet” of a man. While being a godly wife is a worthy ideal, the only statement that is universally true forevery woman is that she should love and serve God as her highest priority. My wife and I raised our own daughters to believe that being a wife and mother was a very high calling but did so in a way that would not crush them if God’s leading had been different.

And Mr. Abshire says the following in his article (this is still the exact article that Mr. Farris pulled his quotes on voting from):

For example, biblical patriarchy never excuses, justifies or motivates godly men to devalue, denigrate or relegate godly women to “second-class” status in the home. Women are NOT inferior to men even if they are subordinate in their roles. Husband and wife are to be “one flesh;” which is more than a quaint euphemism for marital intimacy but rather a spiritual union of two individuals (1 Cor 6:16-17). Granted the wife is to respect her husband and submit to him (1 Ptr 3:1) but the husband is also required to treat her with grace, kindness and respect granting her honor as a joint-heir of the Kingdom, lest God refuse to hear his prayers (1 Ptr 3:7). In pagan patriarchy, the wife was often little more than a domestic servant and child-bearer (as in ancient Greece, the “cradle” of “democracy”) but in the biblical view, God praises the godly woman for her industriousness, creativity, aesthetics and business acumen (Pvbs 31:10ff). A wise man, understanding his duty as representative, will therefore lawfully utilize all the assets of the family, including his wife’s wisdom, gifts and concerns, for the common good of the family.”

“Some have criticized the “patriarchs” for having the view that “the mother’s role is to bear children, cook food and keep her mouth shut.” If this accusation were true, then it would be a serious blow against “patriarchy;” however, one searches in vain for those “patriarchs” who espouse such a view. The godly “patriarch” lives with his wife in an understanding manner (cf 1 Ptr 3:7ff) and represents HER views to the world as a part of his greater duty as her federal head. Yes, undoubtedly, many ungodly men tyrannize their wives; but the problem is their own personal sin- NOT the theology of “patriarchy.””

“Different men will of course work out these basic principles in different ways; for example, finding an alternative to post-industrial economics, some men might establish a family business that employs his wife and children in profitable enterprises; others may have to work outside the home to provide for their households. Some men may decide that certain activities are counter-productive to the spiritual welfare of his family while other men decide differently; e.g., whether a wife may work outside the home or not until God blesses them with children. The basic principle is that God’s law is sufficient and we must not make rules where God Himself has granted liberty.”

“Since we are now three generations into the modern humanist interpretation of the family, rediscovering biblical patriarchy is fraught with danger. Since so many modern Christian men are too lax in leading their families, failing to teach and protect them, they risk losing them to humanist culture. In response, other men will be too strict with their families and hence risk “vexing” their children. There is also the danger that some men will over-react against the common emasculated concept of the modern “father” and will overcompensate by denying any authority other than their own; including lawful authority in the church and State. The simple fact is that ALL Men will sin; they will sin against God and they will sin against their families. However, the divinely required methodology of dealing with that sin is by meditating and applying the unchanging standards of God’s law, being humble before Him, recognizing and confessing that sin, and then through repentance, taking the appropriate course of action.

Thus, we ought to expect that in the process of trying to rediscover biblical patriarchy, some men will struggle with finding the proper balance. Some will confuse their own personal values with Scriptural ones-attempting to bind other’s consciences without lawful warrant. Some men will no doubt err by being too protective of their children. Yet the solution is NOT to undermine the concept that the father is the federal representative of his family, both to God and to the world, but rather instruct him in his duties before God and encourage him in fulfilling his divine mandate.”

” Finally, some criticize the “patriarchs” for not wanting to invest in an expensive college education for their daughters because we “we need more young ladies in law, school, medicine, the arts and so on.” Again, this criticism assumes a modern cultural value and established it as the norm despite the fact that it has no biblical warrant and constitutes social suicide. Even the radical feminists today admit that women cannot adequately function as both a “career” woman and mother. A simple examination of the birth rates for professional women shows that the more highly educated a women becomes, the LESS likely she is to get married and the LESS likely to have children. Thus, this writer is actually encouraging brilliant Christian women to take a course of action that will mean cutting off their genetic inheritance for future generations! We do not need MORE female Christian lawyers, doctors or artists, but MORE godly women raising MORE godly children who will fill the earth and subdue it to the glory of God. And does it really make economic sense to invest tens of thousands of dollars for a woman to get an advanced education (often having to go into debt to finance that education) that she will NOT use if she accepts that her highest calling is to be a wife and mother? Thus, this “reformer” is actually encouraging a sociological system that impoverishes the family and reduces its ability to exercise godly dominion.”

Please note that Mr. Abshire is not saying that women should never be highly educated. There are many cost and time efficient ways other than an expensive college education for women and men to accomplish higher learning. The context here is of women who are planning to be wives and mothers pursuing a college education with a career in mind.

Mr. Farris also briefly quotes from the Vision Forum article The Tenets of Biblical Patriarchy:

Example: “Until she is given in marriage, a daughter continues under her father’s authority and protection.”


This particular example is a good way to demonstrate a common error in both men’s theologies. Phillips has stated that daughters should remain in their fathers’ homes until married. His principal biblical citation for this argument is the story of Rachel and Leah in the home of their father, Laban.” [Emphasis added.]

It is a fundamental error of scriptural interpretation to assume that one narrative passage reveals a normative rule that we should all follow. In this same story, we see Laban embracing bigamy, selling his daughter in exchange for labor, and even resorting to sexual trickery. If we believe that one fact in this story reveals a universal rule from God, then all of the facts in this story should create such rules as well. Obviously, it is nonsense to use Laban’s treatment of his daughters to create universal norms. While the story may have lessons for us, the decisions of Laban are not universal commands from God.

Mr. Farris here states things that are not stated in the original article. As Mr. Kevin Subra points out in his excellent response (which I also highly recommend be read in full) to the statements made by Mr. Farris:

Wanting to be as informed as possible, and thinking I was slightly more informed about what Phillips taught than what Farris was presenting Phillips view to be, I followed the citation after “Laban” to actually look at the Vision Forum article that Farris cited. The Vision Forum article did not, as Farris suggest, present the account of Laban as the “principal citation.” It was listed as the first of five Bible references listed in Biblical order. The nature of the article was supportive, not explanatory. It listed all relevant references at the end of a summarizing statement, and didn’t explain how the references related to that statement. This is just plain shoddy research, or dishonest representation, both of which are wrong anytime, and especially when making such accusations.

To properly use the Vision Forum article, one would have to know what the verses were and how they would tie into the statement. It really was not a good document to try to convey the viewpoint of Vision Forum or Phillips. Farris grabs the first reference in the list, assumes it is the “principal biblical citation” and then proceeds to attack it “primary citation” with an argument all the while not knowing that the claim he makes about the reference is invalid.

As with the article by Mr. Abshire, Mr. Farris did not include quotes that would clarify the position Vision Forum held to. The following quotes are also from The Tenets of Biblical Patriarchy and are in direct opposition to the accusations Mr. Farris made (Emphasis added).

2. Both man and woman are made in God’s image (their human characteristics enable them to reflect His character) and they are both called to exercise dominion over the earth. They share an equal worth as persons before God in creation and redemption. The man is also the image and glory of God in terms of authority, while the woman is the glory of man. (Gen. 1:27-28; 1 Cor. 11:3,7; Eph. 5:28; 1 Pet. 3:7)


5. A husband and father is the head of his household, a family leader, provider, and protector, with the authority and mandate to direct his household in paths of obedience to God. (Gen. 18:19; Eph. 6:4)

6. A man’s authority in the home should be exercised with gentleness, grace, and love as a servant-leader, following the example of Jesus Christ. Leadership is a stewardship from God. (Ps. 103:13; Mal. 3:17; Matt. 11:29-30; Col. 3:21; 1 Pet. 3:7)

7. The authority of fathers is limited by the law of God and the lawful authority of church and state. Christian fathers cannot escape the jurisdiction of church and state and must be subject to both. (Rom. 13:1ff.; Eph. 5:21; 6:4; Heb. 13:17; 1 Pet. 2:13ff.)

13. Since the woman was created as a helper to her husband, as the bearer of children, and as a “keeper at home,” the God-ordained and proper sphere of dominion for a wife is the household and that which is connected with the home, although her domestic calling, as a representative of and helper to her husband, may well involve activity in the marketplace and larger community. (Gen. 2:18ff.; Prov. 31:10-31; Tit. 2:4-5)

Again, I would encourage any one concerned with this to read both articles in full. The fact that Mr. Farris ignored large portions of these articles and only pulled out a few snippets (one of which he applied his own commentary to as fact) from the same articles to prove his points on the dangers of patriarchy is extremely troubling.

Read my earlier response to Mr. Farris here.